Is a Family Internet Filter a Good Cure For Porn Addiction?
February 22nd, 2011
Have you taken a step back to notice how much pornography is out there on the internet today? It’s all out there: images, movies, you name it, someone will give it to you. The weird thing is that you do not even need to contribute to this multibillion dollar industry any more. With the flood of free sites dishing up the porn for your every desire, the idea of a family internet filter starts to sound like a great thing, doesn’t it?
With such easy access to porn, it is also not surprising that with that comes a rise in the number of addiction cases cropping up in our society. We know the most likely cause to this addiction. To be identified as an addict, you are warring with the temptation to view pornography all day, every day, even on weekends and holidays. It does not take a rest, no matter who you are. It is there, ready for you to grab at it, live on the internet. Without a family internet filter, it could only get worse for the addict.
Those who don’t, or haven’t suffered from this or any addiction may simply wonder why the addict doesn’t just stop, walk away from it. This is a fool’s question, as anyone who has suffered from any type of addiction can attest. Once caught up in an addiction, the addict is trapped in a way that no non-addict could ever know about. Even when facing the possibility of destroying a relationship, it is still not easy to break free. Being a disorder of the mind, it needs treatment, not just a family internet filter, and more than just saying “Walk away.” That’s like asking a fly to just walk off the flypaper.
I don’t want to paraphrase the statement, “You might be a porn addict if…”, but it’s true, you can tell if you or someone close to you is suffering from this powerful addiction. Things like not being able to resist looking at it when it comes across the screen, and a feeling that you need porn rather than desire it, after you come across it. At this point, a family internet filter is useless.
Then there are other unique signs, signs that aren’t so across the board, that you actually have to look closely at the symptoms to be sure. Spending too much time wrapped up in porn, trying to cut back but not doing so good, letting it slowly encroach upon your day to day life to where it begins to take over, letting it disrupt work, home, school and even your social life, and you feel helpless because you know you have a problem but feel you can’t do anything but submit to it. Having a family internet filter, but never installing it. Lastly, you experience unnecessary agitation, even anger, if you can’t get to some porn.
You know what the biggest step you can take to begin to find a cure. A superior family internet filter is where it begins, either for yourself to regain control, or for your loved one. You don’t have to throw the computer out the upstairs window to take this step. Nothing more drastic than adding the right family internet filter. Talk to your loved ones about this problem, and get them on board with this solution. This is a simple solution, and it is a first step only, but a good first step to achieving that break away happiness.